The flux
and flow of enrichment classes which drain our monthly resources continue.
In a
nutshell, enrichment changes for the kids this year:
DAY
He’s
finally done with tuition – for the year at least – as his Chinese tuition
stops after the PSLE. He’s very happy now. But I’ve already been warned –
Chinese in Secondary school is HARD.
He recently
stops gymnastics, after three whole years. His gymnastics career fizzles out
with a whine when he stops classes and the teachers don’t even ask why. That’s
the thing about enrichment. Sometimes it takes several years for them to
realize they’re not very good in it and that they don’t like it very much, but
too bad you would have spent the money already.
* Miserable gym-ming
But in
place of that, he takes up taekwondo.
He also
re-started piano, at the start of the year, after stopping for a year plus. That’s the other thing about
enrichment. Sometimes they stop, but they don’t really mean it and the parent
is left guessing – Is this renewed interest for real?
JO
Jo stopped
Chinese tuition at the end of last year, meaning she’s been tuition-free the
entire year. The Chinese tutor, who also taught Day, said Jo could do without it and waved her off
with smile. But I’ve been warned – Chinese in Primary 5 is HARD. Jo herself is most concerned.
She is
still fully invested in her gymnastics and piano classes. The thing about Jo is
she keeps going without ever losing steam, which is good, but which also means
you think twice before letting her start anything because everything piles up.
* Jo and Lu at a recent student's piano concert
So why did
I let her start private erhu classes? I don’t know. Except that teacher called
me up twice to say Jo should do private classes and I thought it’d be nice if
she gets good enough to get into a proper orchestra and enjoy making music with
other kids who practice at home and not once or twice a week. She’s also taken an erhu exam.
Jo, even
without tuition, is the busiest "enrichment" kid by far.
LU
Lu is still
banging away on the piano, resentful one minute and happily plonking out her
tunes the next. She wants to stop, I know, but she’s malleable and having
learnt from Day (don’t always listen too closely to what the child wants) I choose to
believe that she does like music and that she’ll enjoy playing for herself next
time and that a music education is enriching in many other ways.
On everyone’s
advice, she also starts Chinese tuition in the middle of the year, which has pushed
up her Fail to a miraculous 80 percent. It's probably a fluke but ah. She is undeniably passing, thanks to the undeniable power of a good
tuition teacher. Lu outwardly hates going for tuition class and flounces about
yelling “I HATE tuition” just before I fetch her there, but I notice a tiny,
blooming interest in Chinese. She makes me read Chinese books to her. What does
that say?
2 comments:
Hi Sher,
may i know if the kids are taking private piano classes or from a music school? i am looking for a piano teacher for my girls. Any good recommendation? thanks!
private lessons. email me? shermaine.wong@gmail.com
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